HDFS 1070 Lecture Notes - Lecture 1: Heterosexuality, Open Relationship, Microaggression Theory
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Hdfs: setting up the life-time relationship system (exam 3, 95% of adults set up a lifetime system: cohabiting without getting married, some get married includes homosexuality, heterosexuality etc. Marriage rates are declining and cohabitation rates are rising: more of a tendency to live with someone & not get married, those who cohabit first and then marry usually marry after having children. Wo(cid:374)(cid:859)t k(cid:374)o(cid:449) a lot a(cid:271)out di(cid:448)or(cid:272)e si(cid:374)(cid:272)e (cid:373)ore people are(cid:374)(cid:859)t getti(cid:374)g (cid:373)arried. Ethnic identity, themes you are going to bring from your families to this new partnered system (religion, beliefs), what religion you will now worship as a family, negotiation. Themes are reflected in how we use resources. Codependent roles, each role is accompanied by a counter-role. People think conjugal roles are revolved around gender. The smart one, the fun one, the technological one. External boundary tasks: patterns of influence and interaction with the external systems. Clear that the primary loyalty is to your partner not your parents.