CAS PS 231 Lecture Notes - Lecture 4: Unbridled, Little Albert Experiment, Magical Thinking
7 Nov 2016
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Men are injured at 2-3; they are taught not to express or understand their emotions. Repair process: harmony-getting along, disharmony- fighting, silence, repair- i"m sorry . Not effective do to issue of neutrality . Create safe space to be intimate in. 3 stages of love: love w/o knowledge, love w/ knowledge, mature love (50% don"t reach this level) 3 rings of patriarchy: the great divide. Halving (traits are mass. or fem. : dance of contempt. Oppression de-valuing women: code of silence. People in minority don"t talk about problems in majority. What men need to learn to be relational (not boomerang) What women need to learn women need to learn to speak directly. Losing: need to be right, need to lose control, unbridled self expression, retaliation, withdrawing. Winning: shift from complaint to request, speaking with love, responding w/ generosity, empowering each other, cherishing.
