COMM ST 10 Chapter Notes - Chapter 1-10: Subtext, Cross Purposes, Small Talk
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Men see themselves as individuals in a world of hierarchy. Every conversation is a negotiation for who is up. Women see themselves as individuals in a network of connections. In a world of status, independence is key. Women focus more on intimacy and men on independence. Why women upset when husbands plan something affecting household on their own without discussing with them first. Women want to discuss decisions first and together. Essential element of connection is symmetry; people are the same. Essential element of status is asymmetry; people are not the same. Women would prefer protection but men see it as being submissive. Dropping names isn"t just to show your important sometimes it"s to establish a connection with somebody. Men focus on if another person is trying to one-up them. Women focus on if another person is trying to get closer or more distant. Freedom means different things to men and women.
