CFS 320 Study Guide - Final Guide: Parenting Styles, Micro Instrumentation And Telemetry Systems
30 Oct 2014
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Prevention toolbox: independence toolset, cooperation toolset, self-esteem toolset. Child problem toolbox: problem-solving toolset, f-a-x listening, keep your cool toolset, clear communication toolset. Parent problem toolbox: discipline toolset, pu toolset, po toolset. Maintenance toolbox: family council toolset, the 3 c"s: consistency, criticism, confidence. Children know how to operate within limits, find the value of rules, are self-disciplined, usually make responsible decisions. Under controlling parenting: avoiders & over-indulgers: avoiders- parents needs are most important, they don"t teach skills, set limits, supervise, or follow through because it takes too much time, physically or emotionally neglectful. Self esteem toolset: differences between praise and encouragement. Praise- rewards success, uses judgmental words, uses value statements, used when the praiser is pleased. Encouragement- unconditional, uses descriptive words, uses mistakes as an opportunity to learn, uses cooperation and builds on strengths. 3 encouraging phrases committed to memory: #1-i love you just because you"re you, #2- your needs are important, #3- i believe in you.
