HDF 313 Study Guide - Midterm Guide: Tegmentum, Vasopressin, Habituation

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9/22/15 (Love and Commitment)
● Triangulating love (sternberg 1986):
○ Love consists of 3 things:
■ intimacy: on its own is liking (similar to liking a friend)
■ passion: on its own is infatuation (sexual component, or passion for your
kids)
■ commitment: on its own is empty love
● passion and intimacy= romantic love
● intimacy and commitment = companionate love
● passion and commitment = fatuous love
● ALL 3 = CONSUMMATE LOVE
● If you don’t have any of these 3 things, it’s NOT LOVE
● Passionate Love vs. Companionate Love:
○ Passionate: I’m in love with you
■ “A state of intense longing for union with another” - Hatfield and Rapson
■ intense romantic love
■ Want to be with them physically and emotionally
■ Passionate love has cognitive, emotional and behavioral characteristics
■ also: characterized by physiological arousal
■ belief the other is the cause of that arousal
● Cognitive characteristics
○ Intense focused attention
○ obsessive thinking
● Emotional (Affective)
○ euphoria: a feeling of intense happiness
○ emotional dependency
○ increased energy
● Behavioral Characteristics
○ seeking proximity
○ sexual bidding
■ Universal: in all societies we have a word to describe it, suggests that it
evolved to courage mating
■ Physiology of passionate love:
● “symptoms of passionate love resemble those of addiction
● Is it possible they activate the same regions of the brain?
● Ventral tegmental area (VTA) brain reacts to loved one, same as
reacting to drugs or chocolate
■ Suggests that passionate love may have evolved to promote partner
choice, which helps to conserve time and energy associated with
courtship
■ passionate love evolved so we could focus on one partner
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Commitment: on its own is empty love kids) If you don"t have any of these 3 things, it"s not love. A state of intense longing for union with another - hatfield and rapson. Want to be with them physically and emotionally. Passionate love has cognitive, emotional and behavioral characteristics. Physiology of passionate love: evolved to courage mating. Symptoms of passionate love resemble those of addiction. Ventral tegmental area (vta) brain reacts to loved one, same as reacting to drugs or chocolate. Suggests that passionate love may have evolved to promote partner choice, which helps to conserve time and energy associated with courtship. Companionate: i love you, but i"m not in love with you over time (become desensitized) aspects of that life. We habituate, we start to feel less passionate about the same person. Some couples are able to maintain feelings of passionate love for decades.

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