HSMC122-18 Lecture : uhv unit 3

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Importance of trust in human relationship.
Trust or vishwas is the foundational value in relationship. "To be assured that each
human being inherently wants oneself and the other to be happy and prosperous"is
known as trust. Having faith in others and believing them. Trust is the expectation
of people that they can rely on our word. It is built through integrity and
consistency in relationships. To keep the trust on ourself and others, we have to
pay attention on the intensions and to understand if we or the other person is not
able to do benefit, it is because we are lacking competence. Trust is the result of
right understanding of the intention of all the human beings around us. This trust
helps to improve our competence in others and in ourselves.
The feeling of 'respect'
Respect means individuality. The sense of individuality is prime object. This is
the first basic step towards respect (sammana). Once we realized that we are
individual then only we can see ourself different from others. In other words,
respect means right evaluation, to be evaluated as I am.
Affection
Affection is the feeling of being related to the other. Affection comes when I
recognize that we both want to make each other happy and both of us are similar.
Then for the first time, I feel that I am related to the other that the other is a
relative of mine. This feeling is called affection. The feeling of affection comes
only if trust and respect are already ensured. Without trust and respect, we feel the
other is trying to make us unhappy, does not wish well for us and hence we can
never feel affection for him/her. We always see the other as being in opposition.
The feeling of 'care'
The feeling of care is the feeling to nurture and protect the body of our relative. Or
in other words a state of mind in which one is troubled; worry, anxiety, or concern
is called care. Care is level of active concern, or lack of negligence, towards
avoidance of possible dangers, mistakes, pitfalls, and risks, demanded of a party as
a duty or legal obligation. We understand a human being as a coexistence of the
self ('I') and the body, and the body is an instrument of 'I'. Based on this
understanding, we take the responsibility of nurturing and protecting the body of
our relatives.
The feeling of 'guidance'
The feeling of ensuring right understanding and feelings in the other (my relative) is
called guidance. We understand the need of self ('I') for right understanding and feelings.
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Trust or vishwas is the foundational value in relationship. "to be assured that each human being inherently wants oneself and the other to be happy and prosperous"is known as trust. Trust is the expectation of people that they can rely on our word. It is built through integrity and consistency in relationships. To keep the trust on ourself and others, we have to pay attention on the intensions and to understand if we or the other person is not able to do benefit, it is because we are lacking competence. Trust is the result of right understanding of the intention of all the human beings around us. This trust helps to improve our competence in others and in ourselves. This is the first basic step towards respect (sammana). Once we realized that we are individual then only we can see ourself different from others. In other words, respect means right evaluation, to be evaluated as i am.

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