COMM 110 Lecture Notes - Lecture 10: Yesallwomen
11 Apr 2016
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Real: someone really does that hurts your feelings. Perceived: something you think someone did that hurts your feeling. If you wave at someone, and they just walk away. When the person no longer is valued or no longer cares about the relationship. Ex. tough love: hurt feelings to make them better -> coaches, parents. Active verbal responses: talk it out/ respond in kind. Invulnerable, person will continue engaging in the behavior because they do not understand. When people think you hurt them on purpose, they will respond differently. In a good relationship, people will less likely to think you hurt them on purpose. In a bad relationship, people will most likely think you hurt them on purpose. Sending:we tend to tease people we like rather than people we don"t like. Receiving: people tend to think there is a grain of truth in it.
