CRS-3220 Lecture Notes - Lecture 2: Evil Nine, Appeasement
10 Apr 2016
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Paper quesion-what do you see as three key values or principles that are important to be able to transform a paricular conlict-could be interpersonal conlict or a large-scale conlict. More communicaion, looking for the underlying issues rather than just reprimanding those involved, igure out ways to change the relaionship into a more posiive one, construcive ways of bringing up issues. North-the ideal of forgiveness- enright and north chapter 3. Forgiveness deined as something we do for ourselves (empowerment) and for the other (git) Does not remove the wrongdoing by works with the recogniion of it. Key fact is re-framing -seeing the ofender and the event in a diferent way. Excepions made if the crime is too horrible or ofender is too evil. Appeasement i will say whatever you want me to say . Anger why can"t you forgive me? : seeking separaion. Jusiicaion or excuse it was no big deal or it"s not my fault .
