PSY 3122 Lecture Notes - Lecture 6: Implied Consent, Stage Fright, Sex Education
6 Dec 2016
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Not only do scripts give us a recipe of how we should act, what is expected of us in sexual contexts. Implicit that it is normal this is the way it ought to be. Sexual scripts are heteronormative between man and woman. Model of sexual experience centered on the big o. didjacum model: first: sexual attraction, desire, lustful looks, gazes, flirting, next: kissing, disrobe, caressing, touching, then: manual stimulation, oral sex, then: intercourse pvi, finally: simultaneous orgasm. Recipe for reproduction (cid:498)real sex(cid:499) is considered intercourse and orgasm. Erection expected to occur around kissing, disrobing phase. Lubrication usually occurs around the same time but not as important. A lot of pressure to obtain orgasm. Look normal don"t want to make it seem like they are enjoying it. Altruistic deceit: i"ll lie to you so you feel good. Want partner to find you good in bed. Avoiding discomfort of talking about it honestly. Stigma associated with men always wanting sex.
