PSY 3102 Lecture Notes - Lecture 12: Chameleon
30 Dec 2016
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Directness communicate directly: apply pressure to ful l relationship decisions. Balance provide emotional support and favours: tends to be most successful method. Note all strategies mixed and matched in situation and stage of relationship. Try o overcome barriers to empathy: 2. Adjust behaviours in accordance with situation and relationship. Noble selves in exible and refuse to adapt (take it or leave it attitude) Wednesday, july 27, 2016: change to whatever is going on (chameleon , weak core self and new persona for every situation, 5. refrain from continually. Issue is ethics: manipulation/exploitation, need to not take advantage of others vulnerabilities and con dences. Stratgegies for ending relationship: indirect types: Withdrawl most dissatisfying for partner; to avoid confrontation and to save face. Pseudo-de-escalation lets just be friends ; can be mutual agreements move to disengagement. Cost escalation e. g. , pick ghts, criticize, act up: get you to break up with them. Wednesday, july 27, 2016: men use this more often, direct types:
