COMM 1076 Lecture Notes - Lecture 10: Telepathy, Communication Problems, Oxymoron
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12 listening blocks, things that get in the way of you being a good listener. What"s preventing you from listening, what"s going on in your brain to prevent you from listening: mind reading. Instead of listening, trying to figure out what they"re really trying to say. Trying to find that hidden meaning: finish a persons sentence for them, filtering, not really listening but are hearing bits and pieces. Filtering for what you"re looking for: do(cid:374)"t co(cid:373)pletely shut out. 1 up you (everyone wants to be the most busiest or have the worst life: "how was your day" it was good "well let me tell you about my day, making it about yourself not good, rehearsing. Instead of listening you"re thinking about what you"re gonna say when the other person stops talking: problem is you don"t hear the other person because you"re rehearsing.
